Some even more so, because the lining of the anus is much more thin and can be broken more easily if too much dry friction occurs again, please refer to the importance of lube use. Be smart and have fun. So if anal sex goes mainstream, be nice to the vanilla holdouts. You made your partner stop and vowed never to go "back" there again. It's all in this little "truth-serum" guide. But, more than half of women who have had receptive anal sex describe it as an unpleasant experience they probably wouldn't repeat.